In the true spirit of minimalism, today we are going to talk about paring down your bucket list. Many of us have one, a list of maybe/maybe not attainable goals or places we have heard or read that we MUST see. Perhaps you already have a few checked off. I think to myself, DANG! Another list I have to keep track of? Do I find that some anguish swirls around in me if I don't check things off from time to time?
Let's kick that bucket.
Goals are good. They keep us from stagnancy. Promote forward thinking. But does a bucket list, which may likely never see completion, prevent us from seeing today as an accomplishment? I think perhaps it may.
Earlier this week, I was weeding in my yard, mostly to prevent people from calling to see if our house had been foreclosed on (it hasn't). I cleared a decent section of the flower bed, sat on the front porch with a nice pilsner glass of local brew, and admired my small accomplishment. My house faces northwest, so I enjoyed the evening performance of the sun setting on a broad Texas sky in the spring. Mentally, I proposed THIS should be on my bucket list of sorts, because I am fully appreciating right now.
Sure, planning to see Paris in the spring is nice, too, but if I am ruminating over a written list of stuff I haven't done yet, will I be enjoying now and what I have done? And experienced? I stuck my face in my lavender plants that are pondering their spring rejuvenation and inhaled their aromatic gifts to me. I planted them after my mother died to remind me of her, as she DID experience Paris in the spring and adored it. I thought, check! Today was a day well-lived.
How about we weed our bucket list, and enjoy what today has brought us? You breathed air today, and probably made a difference to the planet in some way. Those seem like great things to check off as done.
And go plant some lavender.
No comments:
Post a Comment